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Thursday, April 13, 2006

I often sit back and think - what would be our children's legacy? What qualities should we ingrain in them, which would help them live a rich, respectful and a meaningful life? Wealth and Education are important but I think more important are roots and the wings.

Roots - they are the strong strings of our values and beliefs that bind us in in the fabric of life. The coming generation(s) must not be a victim of confusion, cumulative corruption, struggle for daily survival and injustice. We are so depressed with these things that we looked for external rols models and are awed by the success of others. Instead of finding solutins within ourselves we prefer to sought them from outside.

It is very important that we appraise our children of our past glories. The loyalty, their conducive attitude, congenial approach towards things and people, the discipline, the definitive demeanor must be appreciated and give them a sense of pride and dignity. Our children should know that the general frustration, dissappointments and chaos in our lives is not a genetic disorder but it sprouts from the falling faith in ourselves. I believe a person who is rooted has a strong sense of balance and in times of trouble always has someone to look upto.

Wings - They are our future. Life's imperfections create the most fundamental environment for growth, aspirations, development, improvment and progress. They push us for the better or for best. It gives us wings to seek our utmost potential - seek the best and make it our own. It leads us to build briges and dreams to other lands and people. There is no limit to where a human man can reach. Why not gift our children the wings of discovery, development, exploration, expansion, advancement. There is no easy way but through trouble. Let's help them to pursue their dreams by working their skills to perfection with every trial and test. Let's make them winners.

I know it's a tall order but let's try. Our children (read as next generation) deserve it.

6 comments :

  1. ....

    > I often sit back and think - what would be our children's legacy?

    Me too sometimes wonder what will the next generation be like. Seeing how things are around I really get more worried.
    There is always good and bad stuff going around and our children will choose one of those two. The choice will be based on ingrained values from their parents and most often these days on friends who make lot of influence in their personal development.

    >Roots-not be a victim of confusion, cumulative corruption, struggle for daily survival and injustice.

    I agree. I wish each and every parent understood this part. If they can't give a better life(read as environment) to their child they have no right to bring them up. But everyone doesn't feel like that.

    > Our children should know that the general frustration,dissappointments and chaos in our lives is not a genetic disorder but it sprouts from the falling faith in ourselves.

    I agree. We should engrave the value s of perseverance and determination in them to fight back chaos in their life.
    Parents are the roots and they have to support, appreciate and feel the pride of nuturing their branches. Roots needs to remain strong in values themselves.

    >Wings.

    The most important thing to achieve ones goal you definitely needs wings.

    >There is no easy way but through trouble.

    I agree. No gain without pain. We should(read as w'l ) always be the wind below their wings and support them in their goals of life.

    Our children(read as our coming generation) will definitely be the luckiest ones to have been brought up by person like you. Your thoughts are practical and Awesome. I appreciate your thinking and efforts to make world a better place. You will definitely be a great Mom.

    Takecare,
    -AJ

    PS: Sorry, I tried writing small comments but once I start writing I end up writing what my mind/heart speaks. Thanks for understanding.

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  2. New Book in Market : The Great Indian Dream
    Author : Nikita

    Anyways, the way to induce values in our children is to live up to them ourselves.

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  3. You are a pearl..a GEM!

    There is a certain calmness in you that is visible thru ur writing. Love your work.

    Cheers!

    ~Richa.

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  4. Anonymous

    I agree with you. We need to be an example for the coming generation.

    Some parents tend to give up on their children while steering them from 'self-destruction'. I am sure you would love to have someone kick your butt when it needs one, when you make mistakes. It could make a difference. It's foolish not to see the right things right in front of your eyes.

    What I meant is that we do need help from certain people at difficult times in our lives. Y can't we be 'those certain people' for the coming generation. It will help them get back on track again, if they are going wrong. This is a lesson I have learnt....I hope the others (read as next generation) learn it too.

    As for the book - would u publish it if I write it?

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  5. ....

    >to be responsible for the problems and mistakes in their lives.

    What if they feel their are not responsible for the problems and mistakes? What if they did not make decisions for themselves?

    But I agree with you about teaching them through our own example.

    Sometimes even if children is right, elders will feel they are wrong. No wonder we say we will support them but I still doubt about the way they would think about stuff around.

    Would we ever match their frequency?
    It's will remain a mystery till we find out.

    Have a nice day,
    -AJ

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  6. Hey Rang de Basanti ka jaadu chal gaya

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