Communication - Although all of us have been communicating with others since our infancy, the process of transmitting information from an individual (or group) to another is a very complex process. So here is a blog for everyone...just ramble on!

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Be kind whenever possible. It is always possible - Dalai Lama.


Kindness is not weak, naive, silly or unimportant. I believe it is the highest form of intelligence in the most challenging, difficult situations. Times when you are going through a rough stretch and feeling down, when you feel the dark clouds are always following you around, and that you you will never get yourself out of this rut. It's in the these times that a hug, kind words of reassurance or any small action, performed with kindness, is so comforting and helpful in getting back on track. And, that's where the POWER of kindness comes into play. People who go out of their way to put a smile back on your face, sometimes without knowing what's running in that head of yours. People who keep you going, make you see the positive in things, people and situations. A friend told me, "Don't allow the troubles in your head to take up too much of your time. You'll be dead and gone, one day". I cannot stress the importance of that statement enough.

There are going to be bad days and there also will be situations you can't change. But, the responsibility lies within you to uplift yourself and move on. If you are lucky, you'll have some really good friends to help you on your way up. Don't let some painful situations get in the way of the love you have to give. There will be times when you will feel disabled in every way, shape or form. People wander, marriages/relationship's fall apart, and things go awry. That's when you need time alone with your thoughts - to accept that you were hurt and to rejoice that you'll recover. Learn from the past experiences and grow with them. Don't regret anything, just recollect the good times and show gratitude for the lesson(s) it taught you. Harboring negative feelings is nothing but a waste of time. Use that energy to help yourself, as well as others, in a positive way.

Recently, I read an article that stated how we don't appreciate and accept people for who they are. How we don't recognize the small acts of kindness and love they offer. I started to feel it was written keeping me in mind. Never before I realized how much I really want to give back the love that so many people gave me. I know that feeling of hopelessness and would never want someone else to go through it. I know that amazing feeling of what a helping hand can do for you. Just taking a nanosecond to put a smile on someone's face can turn the day around for them, and for you. The deep satisfaction that comes when you know you've touched a heart. The sun you bring in someone's day will light up your day, too. Treating others with kindness, love, respect and compassion will only bring the same in abundance for you as well.

I've been lucky, really lucky for the family I have and the most awesomest, loving friends I have made in my life thus far. Reaching out to people with kindness will only make you a better person. Take the time to help others, treat them with respect, say nice things and think good thoughts - Because EVERYTHING comes back!

Current mood - *feeling determined*
On the playlist - Muskurane ki wajah tum ho (Arijit Singh on the vocals, at his best).

**Pics off the web.


Sunday, May 1, 2016

When was the last time you told someone you loved them?

I recently watched a video, and it made me realize how seldom we tell people close to us that we love them. That we value them. As friends or family. I thought to myself - What is it the one thing that I would still set out to acquire in life, amongst all the worldly possessions, in the grand scheme of things? What is that one thing in life that would give me a rapid heartbeat of anticipation or the possession of excitememt in breath?And, that would be - love of others. Not the thrill of fancy cars, clothes or experiences, just pure, unadulterated, oragnic love. ONLY love.

The love from friends and family that is sometimes so overlooked, so taken for granted, so kept under wraps. The love that should be kept close - to the heart, and to life. So much so that you'd have difficulty in letting these people go, if a situation arose. The people you'd want to hang onto, cling to, and make them stay in your life forever, for they make up for the love you feel. The ones who are considered unbreakable pieces of your family - and MOST importantly YOUR life.
Love, for me, has always been very sacred and delicate. It can be the best moments and the most beautiful memories of someone. Love, so pure in thoughts and yet so majestic in gestures. Love that triumphs over all, the kind of love that uplifts us from darkened days and is the light at the end of the tunnel. The kind that makes their chest swell and tightens their throat by just thinking of how much you mean to them. The gift of uncoditional support that cannot be bought, but only earned. The thrill of someone tolerating you while you are having a bad day, and still love you at the end of the day. It makes me wonder that love is really not so complicated after all. You give love, respect and abundance and that's exactly what you receive. But, for some the concept of love is always up for debate. It's been terrifying and hurtful for some. Sometimes telling someone you love them causes more anxiety than an open-heart surgery. It's never easy telling someone that you love them, the first time. It's even harder to accept if it's not reciprocated. My response is, that one should take the risk, be bold enough to say those three magical words, without expectations. To express and not supress. But, there's everyone who needs a little bit of love at the end of the day. There is comfort in the knowledge that someone loves you for what you are.

 I've heard people say that you need to attract positive vibes from the person you love, at the core, to attract love and abundance in your life. But, we just don't say it enough. Regardless of who it is - your partner, family or just a friend. When was the last time you told you near ones you love them? Maybe, the time is NOW.

Mood right now - *Smiling*
On the playlist - Bolna from Kapoor & Sons (Arijit Singh at his best)!  

**Pics off the web

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