When there is someone....
We all grow emotional at times, don't we? How wud it be to pour all your troubles, anxities, fears, problems and worries into the heart of another person? And finding a responding chord?
How delighted wud one feel to be secured in the knowledge that no matter what the world thinks of you, there is this one person who believes in you and that you can depend upon their judgement, love and loyalty. Fingers that entwine with yours, assuring of you being good, when there are fingers being pointed out at you. For every person who finds nuthing but flaws and faults in you, there is this one person who knows your worth and also makes you realize it. Who loves you overlooking all your flaws. That when I am blamed for doing wrong, someone to tell you that you learn from your misakes and that I wud have neva known it was wrong unless I did it.
I know I have someone to turn on to, when I need to discuss my ideas or express my feelings, besides my blog. That my problem will not be "mine", but "ours" after I discussed it and that WE together wud find a solution for it. My every gesture wud be acknowledged and rewarded with an equal gesture, not out of expectation but out of love, care and concern. That when my heart is heavy and the world beneath my feet has slipped away, the world wudn't care any less, but someone does care. That when something tragic happens in ma life, I have a shoulder to cry on. Someone who eases the pain and wud cry with me if need arises.
How emotional can one be? Isn't this the stuff that dreams are made of? We feel like a small child marooned on an island looking for a parent. Some find and get. Some dn't. The ones who find are just so God damn lucky. The ones who dn't find make peace with themselves. They learn to survive alone. They learn to trust and find love, comfort and solace in themselves. No one can be a better friend than oneself. You know what lies within you; you are precious. You can only be sorry for that someone who neva took possession of it.
>We all grow emotional at times, don't we?
ReplyDeleteI do.
>How wud it be to pour all your troubles, anxities, fears, problems and worries into the heart of another person?
It would be nice a thing...Atleast I would get some courage knowing there is someone there to listen....
>And finding a responding chord?
Even though is if the other person couldn't do anything but if that person was there to hear and respond...You totally would get all energy to fight back..
>How emotional can one be?
Depends on the situation..you can always be practical and emotional at
same time...
>Isn't this the stuff that dreams are made of?
Dreams are made of expectations...
>The ones who dn't find make peace with themselves.
Not really..... the ones who don't find are either looking at wrong place or waiting for other person to step lil forward...
-AJ
Know wot u mean..
ReplyDeletelove has the power to keep u sane n connected to this big wide world..
if love is lost all is lost.. tats wot r my views
How emotional can one be? Isn't this the stuff that dreams are made of?
ReplyDeleteI get a lot emotinally attached to people I met...and then I start getting closer untill I realise...ki Im actually thinking about their problems as if they are of ma own...I go sad, when they are feeling bad about something..
there is this one person who believes in you and that you can depend upon their judgement,
I'm always in search of this person..I feel insecure if Im alone..I dunno why
Sonu
ReplyDeletelove has the power to keep u sane n connected to this big wide world..
Love is about two sentimental fools. Who grow old together, tracing outlines from every faded picture of the past, every stolen glimpse, who mae fun of each other and have the greatest respect for each other. It's these emotional certainties that we need to survive and sustain ourselves on a daily basis.
if love is lost all is lost..
I agree with you.
Z000nie
ReplyDeleteI go sad, when they are feeling bad about something..
You alwasy want to give so much in return to the people you are attached to. The people who have given you so much, taught you to be at peace with yourself and wiped away softly all those invisible tears, listened to all things big and small, touched you somewhere deep inside where no one else has ever been.
I'm always in search of this person..I feel insecure if Im alone..I dunno why
The eternal search for this person is on for everyone. Insecurity stems from being alone. We all feel it.
>I used to harbour this dream of someone appearing one day and lifting my own heaviness from my shoulders.
ReplyDeleteWhat if there is someone waiting to lift all heaviness and you are not giving that person ........
>Ma life has been based more on instincts than practicality.
Life is based on instincts here too but I try being practical in that instincts.
>I stick up for people and things that often matter nothing to others.
Whatever matter to you may not matter to anyone else. But whatever matter to you should matter to the ones who love you...
>We dn't always look at the wrong place.
Agreed..
>Y is it that we always wait for the other person to ake the 1st move?
What if I have taken the first step and waiting for other person ....
>Y can't we walk a few steps towards the other person? Y is the ego so inflated
I can totally walk towards the person...No one is big or small in front of me...Be it a crorepati or a domestic helper...I respect the person for its values not for what is there in their bank account....
well, Persons Ego says something about himself/herself..the way that person was brought up...mostly about his/her family and friends....
-AJ
AJ
ReplyDeleteWhat if there is someone waiting to lift all heaviness and you are not giving that person ........
Anish, if there was this "someone", I wud have given him all the rights on me and my life.
being practical in that instincts.
I somehow just cannot be practical. The heart rulez!!
But whatever matter to you should matter to the ones who love you...
Very true. I've been blessed with a family and friends who care for me, love me for what I am and understand me. Everything that circles my life matters to them :-).
What if I have taken the first step and waiting for other person ....
No answer to this one!
I respect the person for its values not for what is there in their bank account....
It's good to know that in this world of money-minded people, there are a few like you, who don't really value people on their bank balances.
ur writing abt love/loneness has increased these days....why so?
ReplyDeletelove someone?? ;)
if yes,CONGRATS!!(congrats???)
> if there was this "someone", I wud have given him all the rights on me and my life.
ReplyDeleteThere is always "someone" "somewhere" :-) May be time will bring them near...
>I somehow just cannot be practical. >The heart rulez!!
My Heart wins the fight b/w itself and Brain, thats the reason I am just little reluctant at doing business..U know how business works in India...
-AJ
Abhishek
ReplyDeleteur writing abt love/loneness has increased these days....why so?
Just ya. No reason in particular. I pen down wht I feel abt certain aspects.
love someone?? ;)
if yes,CONGRATS!!(congrats???)
Nopes. It's nuthing like tht. Wudn't want to go thru tht xperience once again.!
AJ
ReplyDeleteThere is always "someone" "somewhere" :-) May be time will bring them near...
I am waiting....dnt know whether it was tht time the got us near or there will be another time....
My Heart wins the fight b/w itself and Brain
My brain stops functioning when the heart is involved. How I wish I had listened to ma brain than my heart, to avoid some major blunders in my life.
>I am waiting....dnt know whether it was tht time the got us near or there will be another time....
ReplyDeleteMe too is waiting...
If the "us" mentioned above is your present then you don't have to wait..
>My brain stops functioning when the heart is involved. How I wish I had listened to ma brain than my heart, to avoid some major blunders in my life.
Me too have made those blunders.It just the human nature..
-AJ
>The US mentioned above is not my present.
ReplyDeleteI am glad ..happy.. lucky that my "US" mentioned as past is gone...Not worth...I am looking forward towards the "US" in present...for whom I care.
Why is that people don't care for the people who are there and always care for the people who were there...I really don't understand it.
Nothing related just in general..I have seen people building worthless structures for people who have past away..instead of doing something for people who are in front of them ..people who need something...
>Human nature talks of making mistakes and learning from them. I have filled in my routine quota of regrets and have learnt from them, too! Only hope that I do not end up making them again.
*Amen* Me too.......
-AJ