Chances and Choices.

The greatest things about life are chances - the ones we take and the one ones we miss. They are made out of the values and doctrines imbibed in you and by the rule book of honesty. It could be just about anything...a work spoken, a gesture or even breaking of traditions.



Being caught up in a moment with the person you are attracted to is a chance. But, if you decide to love that person even with his/her faults, that's not a chance. That's a choice.



When you choose to be with a person, no matter what, that's choice. Even if you know there are many people out there who are more attractive, smarter, and richer than your mate, and yet, you decide to love your mate just the same, that's choice.



Regarding soulmates, there's a beautiful movie quote that I believe is so true about this: "Fate brings you together, but it's still up to you to make it happen." I do believe that soulmates do exist. That there is truly someone made for you. But it's still up to you to make the choice if you're going to do something about it or not. We may meet our soulmates by chance, but loving and staying with our soulmate is still a choice we have to make.



Have you made your choice? Or taken the chance?