The Blame Game.

It’s so easy for us to look to others to shoulder our guilt for occurrences in our life. We accuse people around us, be it co-workers, friends, parents, siblings for things that go wrong in our life and also our mate for our inability to sustain a loving relationship. Yet, who’s to blame? Actually no one, because there is a responsibility that each one of us needs to take and it is ours and ours alone.Who...

My best friend's wedding

Dee is getting married next month. My friendship with Dee has many precious moments, times when we'd strengthen each other's belief in the 'good' after a bad day, times when a chat with her would erase all troubles and tensions, so much so I'd never wanna bid her good bye. We both knew our weaknesses but like friends are,we'd appreciate the finer qualities in each one of us,numerous times we have...

Chances and Choices.

The greatest things about life are chances - the ones we take and the one ones we miss. They are made out of the values and doctrines imbibed in you and by the rule book of honesty. It could be just about anything...a work spoken, a gesture or even breaking of traditions.Being caught up in a moment with the person you are attracted to is a chance. But, if you decide to love that person even with his/her...

Can you have a better start for your day?

1) Your friends send you nasty reminders because you did not reply to their earlier emails.2) Mom complains about you not spending time at home.3) Work sucks4) So does l...

As I walk through this journey of life I have..

*learnt to stop judging and pointing fingers and have begun to accept people as they are and to overlook their shortcomings and human frailties.*learnt the difference between wanting and needing and have begun to discard the doctrines and values I've outgrown, or should never have bought into to begin with and have learnt to go with my instincts.*learnt that that it is truly in giving that we receive....

What if..

What if you were given an oppourtinity to go back and change on thing about your life, what would it be? I have dwelled on this question on many occassions when nothing made sense, everything went wrong, but till date I have not found an answer. There are times when I am happy, mind seems lighter, all complexitions seemed to be ironed out, these are the times when I don't want to change a thing, it's...

Always Remember

Always remember to forgetThe things that made you sadBut never forget to rememberThe things that made you glad.Always remember to forgetThe friends that proved untrue.But don't forget to rememberThose that have stuck by you.Always remember to forgetThe troubles that have passed away.But never forget to rememberThe blessings that come each d...

Veer-Zaara.

Finally, the wait is over. Yash Chopra, the maestro of romance, returns with his cross border romance flick.Saw a late afternoon show of the much awaited movie. It's not entirely inedible. You got to watch it like any other Yash Chopra film – with your eyes and heart wide open. Like any other Yash Chopra film, it has oodles of open-air romance, sensual chemistry between the lovers and teary-eyed emotionality.It...

Happy Diwali and a Prosperous New Year.

To all fella bloggers across the globe:May Ganesha shower u with His choicest blessings today and forever.May this festival of lights bring tons of joy, happiness, prosperity, luck & warmth in your lives.May success be yours and time favours you.May opportunities knock your door whole year throughout...

An Umbilical Bond.

A Mother is :A DENTIST who uses a string. A SUNSHINE on a cloudy day. A STORY TELLER when you can't get to sleep. A HAIR STYLIST on the night of the prom. A DOCTOR who cures poison ivy. A TEACHER who teaches about life. A SEAMSTRESS who patches torn jeans. A COMEDIAN who makes you laugh when you're down. A CHEERLEADER at all sports activities. A NURSE who bandages a scraped knee. A ARTIST who teaches...

God Speak to me !! - By Ravindra Kumar Karnani

"The child whispered, 'God, speak to me'And a meadow lark sang.The child did not hear.So the child yelled, 'God, speak to me!'And the thunder rolled across the skyBut the child did not listen.The child looked around and said,'God let me see you'and a star shone brightlyBut the child did not notice.And the child shouted,'God show me a miracle!'And a life was bornbut the child did not know.So the child...

I've realized that...

*It's time to stop hoping and waiting for something to change or for happiness, safety and security to come galloping over the next horizon. * That I am not perfect and that not everyone will always love, appreciate or approve of me or what I am... and that's OK. (They are entitled to their own views and opinions).*People don't always say what they mean or mean what they say and that not everyone...

Quote of the day ....

"Willpower is the ability to resist temptation until you are sure no one's looking" ...

Maybe Tommorrow.....

Today was silent.Things were different.Things felt different.No obvious difference.A change of direction.I can guess where I need to stand now.I see the tide comming in high.Can' t wait for the waves to clash at my shore toTake away all the garbage, moulded past from my sands.The tide takes its time to come in.It can take a long time - sometimes.I was hoping to see the first white unicorn gallopping...