'A' says my formulas on love are twisted. He says my fundamentals are complicated.!!! Just 'cause he doesn't relate to my "fundas", does it mean that they are illogical?? Bull-shit!!!
All (read as Most) of us have fallen in love at some point in time. Some might still be in love or will be someday.
Love and hurt, Love and Tears, Love won, Love lost, Stupid love, Love across distance, Young love, Old love, Romatic love, Eternal love....
I've grown up reading Mills and Boons and still read them sometimes. Have also heard intervies on love, people praising it and have had numerous discussions with friends and family in gatherings. What I have realized is that love is sweet and sour rolled into one. So strange! Love is all about getting pampered, to be cared for, being happy, feeling cute, adored, adored and nice. It's about bestowing on another the most precious gift we have to offer: joys, our understandings, and love for life. Then how can it ever be sour?
But it's not always mushy, sugar-and-spice and everything-nice. There is a point in time when you have to stop looking at your r'ship with rose-tinted glasses. Not always will you be on cloud nine or feel surrounded by fresh roses. Circumstances / situations come in our lives that the regard, love, kindness, respect and warmth just abruptly ends. The feelings turn sour.
But yet, we all behave in love the way people before us have and people after us would continue to do so. We lose sleep, appetite, money and comfort. We sail across seas, climb the highest mountains, promise the moon, dream the most wonderful of dreams, kick traditions, make changes that we normally wouldn't, adjust/compromise.
But we all still want to fall in love. Even if it has nuthing to offer us except bitter regret and pain. We keep looking for more. Don't we?
Well, fools fall in love in a hurry
Fools give their hearts much too soon
Just pay them two bars of stardust
Just hang out one silly moon
Oh-oh! They've got their love torches burning
When they should be playing it cool
I used to laugh but now I understand
Shake the hand of a brand new fool
--THE DRIFTERS
All (read as Most) of us have fallen in love at some point in time. Some might still be in love or will be someday.
Love and hurt, Love and Tears, Love won, Love lost, Stupid love, Love across distance, Young love, Old love, Romatic love, Eternal love....
I've grown up reading Mills and Boons and still read them sometimes. Have also heard intervies on love, people praising it and have had numerous discussions with friends and family in gatherings. What I have realized is that love is sweet and sour rolled into one. So strange! Love is all about getting pampered, to be cared for, being happy, feeling cute, adored, adored and nice. It's about bestowing on another the most precious gift we have to offer: joys, our understandings, and love for life. Then how can it ever be sour?
But it's not always mushy, sugar-and-spice and everything-nice. There is a point in time when you have to stop looking at your r'ship with rose-tinted glasses. Not always will you be on cloud nine or feel surrounded by fresh roses. Circumstances / situations come in our lives that the regard, love, kindness, respect and warmth just abruptly ends. The feelings turn sour.
But yet, we all behave in love the way people before us have and people after us would continue to do so. We lose sleep, appetite, money and comfort. We sail across seas, climb the highest mountains, promise the moon, dream the most wonderful of dreams, kick traditions, make changes that we normally wouldn't, adjust/compromise.
But we all still want to fall in love. Even if it has nuthing to offer us except bitter regret and pain. We keep looking for more. Don't we?
Well, fools fall in love in a hurry
Fools give their hearts much too soon
Just pay them two bars of stardust
Just hang out one silly moon
Oh-oh! They've got their love torches burning
When they should be playing it cool
I used to laugh but now I understand
Shake the hand of a brand new fool
--THE DRIFTERS
Niki…looks like u r regretting falling in love…is it so??
ReplyDeleteIt shouldn’t be like this sweetheart…MAY B u made wrong choices ,wrong decisions earlier….but that shouldn’t make u feel that loving a person is something foolish.
Love is the the most beautiful thing that can happen to anyone…u will understand love better when it gets locked in warms SECURE hands..This LOCKED SECURE LOVE will set u free in many ways…believe me!(and uv got to believe it cuz its comming from someone like me...and u know my past ,present everything...hai na niki!)
AF
ReplyDeleteNiki…looks like u r regretting falling in love…is it so??
Nopes. I liked him for however long I had him around, and now when it is over, I am simply gng to pick up the pieces and the learnings and move on.
Love is the the most beautiful thing that can happen to anyone…
Completely agree with you on this!
u will understand love better when it gets locked in warms SECURE hands..
I too am waiting for that person who would be the destination.
Abhishek
ReplyDeleteFeeling alone is different than being alone. You can "feel" lonliness despite you being amongst a group of people.
Donno about you....but I'd neva want to be alone. It sure does nuthing good for me, atleast.